Today’s installment of the ‘Dating Chronicles’ touches on the age old question we as women often ask ourselves when things don’t work out. I was talking to one of my best friends last night and spent about 30 minutes wracking our brains trying to figure out why things didn’t work out with “x” guy. I thought things were going well, we’d talk, text and even send voice messages to each other all day. We enjoyed spending time together as well, slow dancing to old vinyls and I even cuddled with this guy! I don’t lie up under any guy just like that. Then he got distant and weird. I thought I was something I did, as women so often do, and then I came across this quote.
I feel like this, coupled with “he’s just not that into you” would help cut back on those “what did I do wrong?” vents with the girls and crying when I knew that the ending of the relationship wasn’t my fault. So, he didn’t want/accept/know how to receive my energy? That’s on him, not me. On to the next one.
That is the perfect attitude to have! Especially when in the situation where you'll NEVER know what happened.